When I meet a friend who has returned from a trip, I don't ask.
“"How was it?"”
This is because the answer is already predetermined.
“It was good. The food was delicious, and the weather was nice.”
The moment I hear those words, I know what kind of trip it was. A trip I saw but did not experience. A trip I went through, but nothing changed. A trip where only a new stamp was added to my passport.
Regarding filling in the blanks of a passport
While working as a guide for several years, I often witnessed strange scenes.
Inside the bus, people check their next destination. They unfold their schedule and check where they are now. When they arrive, they take a picture. Then they get back on the bus.
One day, a guest asked me, “Guide, how many places are we going today?”
I understood something then. To him, travel was the act of collecting places. A trip where the more you saw, the better the trip, and the less you saw, the more of a loss. A trip where movement itself was the product.
I am not saying that the method was wrong. However, it made me think about what remains after the trip ends. Photos? Memories? Stories?
Things the app doesn't tell you
Nowadays, you can plan a trip on your own with just one app. From restaurants and transportation to entrance fees and even routes recommended by locals. People say we have entered an era where guides are no longer needed.
I think that is right. Guides are no longer needed to obtain information.
However, there is something the app cannot tell you.
Why that alley is important. The reason that market looks that way at that time. The reason that what that old woman sells is not just a simple snack. Even if you know the name of the food, the app doesn't tell you what kind of life it comes from.
Information and context are different. Information can be searched, but context is created only when it is alive.
I have been living in Vietnam for 10 years, along with my Vietnamese wife and two children. Ha Long Bay is my home, Hanoi is a familiar city, and Sapa is a place I occasionally long to visit. To me, the landscapes of the North are not tourist attractions, but my everyday life.
The app cannot provide that context.
The true meaning of the saying "You see as much as you know."
Someone asked me, “Is there a lot to see in Sapa?”
I thought for a moment.
Is there a lot to see? Well, I don't know. You can see the terraced rice fields in photos. The fog, the mountains, the ethnic minority costumes—you can find them all.
However, the back view of a mother taking her two children to school through the rice paddies early in the morning cannot be found on an app. Nor can the sight of grandmothers sitting down to rest briefly before spreading out their mats after coming down from the mountain on market mornings. You can only see why those scenes are beautiful if you know even a little bit of that life.
That is what it means to say, "You see as much as you know." It is not about knowledge, but about relationships. There are things that begin to become visible only when you are connected, even slightly, to that land and its people.
And it lasts as long as it appears.
The place I want to take you
Rather than guiding you around tourist attractions, I would like to invite you to where I live.
Even if the difference seems small at first, what remains at the end of the trip is completely different.
“Not a trip that ends with a simple "I had a good trip," but one where the scents and scenes suddenly come to mind long after it has passed. A trip where memories, not photographs, remain. A journey where you experience how the people of this city live, not through a window, but right inside.
That is the image of travel that I have sought over the years while working as a guide.
Package tours show you through a window. Apps hand you a map. I want to walk into it together.
Sapa seriesIt contains that story. In the next installment, we stop briefly in Lao Cai—a city on the way to Sapa. In that city, where Vietnam and China face each other across a river, I discovered another meaning of travel.
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✍️ About the Author I reside in Ha Long Bay and simultaneously work as a tour guide, operate a travel agency, and engage in local investment. For private tour consultations and travel inquiries, please use the 'Tour Inquiry' option in the top menu.